Because of you, I will try to be a Grade B boyfriend.

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A:她：“老公。帮我接杯水呗。”
他：“石头剪子布。谁输了谁去。”
她：“算了。我自己去吧。”

B:他们坐在一起看韩剧。她起身。他问“干吗去？”
她：“去接杯水。”
他：“你坐这看吧。我去给你接。”

女人多可怜。她对男人唯一的要求就是“疼她”。你可以什么都没有,只要你疼她,她就有足够的勇气把自己的下半辈子交给你。
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A:他晚上下班。给她打电话“宝贝儿。我晚上和朋友出去吃饭。”
她：“你不是答应我陪我逛街的吗？”
他：“改天吧！”
她默默地流泪。为什么每次都是这样？

B:他下班的时候打电话给她:“亲爱的。别人给我一张奥运会的票。巴西队啊！一会儿我去

看球了啊。”
她：“哦。这样啊。好吧。”
他：“怎么不高兴了？”
她：“你忘了。上周说好今天我朋友和她男朋友请我俩吃饭啊。”
他：“哎呀。对不起亲爱的。我忘记了。那我把票给别人吧。我陪你去吃饭。”
她：“不要了。吃饭可以改天。或者你先去看。我们等你。”
他：“那不行。答应你的事情必须得做到。再说你自己跟他俩在一起像电灯泡似的。你肯定不舒服啊”
她：“没事……”
没等她说完。他很强势的告诉她“好了。听我的。你收拾一下。我一会儿去接你。”

其实女人不是不懂事。只是。她需要碰上一个懂事的男人。其实。情侣之间。是可以互相的。
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A:他：“我晚上出去吃饭了啊。”
她：“几点回家？”
他：“九点之前肯定回家。”
九点半，她：“你怎么还不回来啊？”
他：“十点。肯定回家。”
十一点。十二点。一点。两点……
后来。她不再打电话催他。因为她知道。对于不守承诺的男人。一切“肯定”都是“未必”。

B:他：“我晚上出去吃饭。九点之前肯定结束。然后我俩去看电影。”
她：“你能那么快就结束吗？”
他：“放心吧。我答应你了就一定能！”
快到九点的时候。他：“收拾一下吧。我马上就到你家了”

信任。是在一件一件小事中建立起来的。
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A:她生理期。身体不舒服。顶着疼痛洗衣服。收拾屋子。
他坐在电脑前面玩网络游戏。
她干完活。躺在床上。长出了一口气。
他看了她一眼：“宝贝儿。辛苦了！”然后转过头。继续玩他的游戏。

B:她生理期。很难受。起身准备洗衣服。
他拽住她：“你去床上躺着。我来！”
她：“你会做家务吗？你自己洗过衣服吗？”
他：“不会做可以学着做啊。以后你身体不舒服的时候。我当然得独挡一面！”

女人需要的不只是甜言蜜语。哄她几句。她也许会给你一个微笑。但是实实在在的呵护,她会对你一辈子的感恩。并且会回报给你一个温暖的家。
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A:她给他拿了一包榛子。然后她去洗衣服。
回来的时候。榛子已经被他吃得所剩无几。

B:她拿给他一包榛子。然后自己去收拾屋子。
回来的时候。她看见电脑前面放了一堆剥好的榛子仁。

女人很感性。她炫耀你对她的体贴。就好像炫耀克拉钻一样。这么廉价的买卖,用一点心思就能收获无比的财富。
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A:他说：“你是最好的。”
她问：“我哪好？”
他：“学历高。能力强。长得漂亮。对我又这么好。”
她笑了。

B:他：“你是我所遇到最好的女孩儿。”
她：“我哪好？”
他：“你对身边的每个人都很友善。很无私。对人对生活总是很感恩。一个人有一颗善良的心。会让周围的人感觉到温暖。你是我见过最善良的女孩儿。伤害你的人都应该下地 狱！”
她哭了。

一个人。是因为你对他好,所以觉得你好。
一个人。是因为懂得你的好,所以想要对你好。
幸福的恋人,首先应该是一对彼此欣赏的知己。
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Coming soon...

I'm in love!!

I went to Kuraman Island with friends some time before September starts. It was a package thing provided by Dolphin Sea Sport Center @ Empire Hotel. Kuraman Island is a heaven for most holidaymakers but it wasnt a happy ending for all of us on that day. It was a nice and smooth ride to get to the island, no big wave and all. It took us about one hour to get to the destination. Just in case you didnt know, Kuraman Island is located somewhere near Labuan. Yes, we were on Malaysia territory without having our passports chopped! We had good time bbq-ing, snorkling, and just floating on the sea with life jackets. On our return trip, the boat was swaying big time and our asses were suffering like hell. Some of us (yes, including me) got seasick but I did not vomit, someone did! It was certainly an unpleasant ride!! Just imagine what we had to go thru for an hour! What's worst, OUR BOAT BROKE DOWN HALFWAY IN THE MIDDLE OF THE SEA!! GOD! I definitely do not want to go through all that sh*t again. Planes and cars are good means of transportation for me. Boat? Nah, no thanks! We waited for quite some time before our rescuer came. No, not the 998 Rescue Team. The uncle @ boatman @ owner @ captain @ 'chao ta' @ you-dont-even-know-that-he's-chinese-until-he-starts-talking who was in charged of the Dolphin Sea Sport Center called another small boat to tow our big boat back. It took us about 2 hours to get back to Empire. We were supposed to be back before 3pm, but we "landed" around 6plus. Right timing for sunset! =S We actually had one shot of the banana boat on that day but we were all exhausted, certainly had no mood to enjoy.

Two days later, we re-united again. Time to enjoy our free banana boat ride! It was great, but I was too scared that I was gonna drown. I dont want to die so youngg!! Luckily I didnt. The guys took the opportunity to try out some other water sports available, parasailing and jet skiing. Yes, it costs a bomb!! It costs us B$55.00 each to get to the island. Snorkling equipments were provided but we need to bring our own foods. Ask me if I will want to hit Kuraman Island again? No! My trip to Manukan Island, KK was far better last year! I will be going to KK towards the end of the year! Happy advanced birthday to Adison!! lol.


For more pictures of my Kuraman Island trip: click here.

I was sunburnt' three times in August:
(1) BBQ with LS crew + (2) Bridex 2009 + (3) Escape to Kuraman Island.
I dont like being a shade darker than how I used to be!
Got wrong meh for a guy to be fair?

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I'm still active for gym! And usually I hit the gym around 4 or 5plus in the afternoon after work / school. I'm trying to make it an everyday activity. Still have the determination to lift heavyweights now, dont think it will last for long tho` *fingers crossed* =P I guess every guy should go to gym more often to keep up the nice body shape. Mine still not nice to be displayed around. haha. Oh, yes cheahwen, I go for weights only. Dancing classes are for aunties and uncles. I will be joining them when I reach 30s. lol

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I hope that I can get to drive an Evolution before I reach 30s. haha. Recently I have this FM assignment which requires me to compare the car prices of cash payment, 3 years- and 7 years- financing. I've inquired GHK and their next shipment for Lancer Evolution X will be some time next month. I remember it costed $73,000+ when it first came to Brunei. And the price is now B$89,000 (Auto) and B$86,000 (Manual). I have to pay B$1,190 per month if I take up the 7 years loan. B$2,450.00 for the 3 years loan. Gosh!! Oh, minimum deposit of B$15,000.00 is compulsory. Evolution X is sweet. Right?

Pink is not bad what? =P

Red is fierce!

Well, Airtrek also not that bad la. I was so tempted to get a credit card for the ecutek thing. But I think I will regret after that. So, I will stick with my stock car for now.

Brunei Mitsubishi Airtrek Club

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Singapore Mitsubishi Airtrek Club



Can fight? lol.



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Hot news!! My sweet baby will be getting her new car soon. Hopefully she wont have to wait for so long!



Baby, I'm really thankful for your patience and understanding. Thanks for willing to listen to me again. I promise I wont let you down again this time. I love you.

Because of you, I smile again =)

Can we stop fighting?

My life: study + part-time work + gym. (updated as of now).

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zeing___
Yeah, I started going to gym two weeks ago. I go to Zunic Wellness @ Athirah Plaza. You go jpmc or fitness zone? Dont be lazy la, let's burn off all the excess calories together. Jia you bro!

qq___
I stopped being so active after you tagged. =P Nothing to do with you tho`, just got busy with study and work. Thanks for dropping by! Hee!

HudaSaki___
Im happy =) Make sure you put a bright smile on your face everyday too yea! SMILEEEEE!!

shin___
You will get used to driving soon.. Just be extra careful whenever you are on road, many reckless drivers nowadays.

'u know who i am'___
Nah, I dont think your suggestion will work in my case. I messed up once, certainly not nice to play around with girls' feelings. =)

Alvin___
:)

What if tomorrow never comes?

shin ::: You are welcome =) big girl already ah, dont be naughty!
Alvin ::: Hello rugged!! Dont drive so fast next time, think of those who sayang you.. before it's too late. =)
NaOH's Anatomy ::: Thanks for being a good friend to me as always! Too bad I can only watch your thriller via Youtube! Great dance!! :)
lex ::: Jiayou! ... when the time comes, 3 weeks before exams if you dont get what I mean =P
qq ::: Hello! I miss you already!

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Im not sure if I can call myself a facebook addict but somehow I login like everyday! I even have facebook as my homepage! Damnn! I think I have to stop stalking H soon. It's making me crazy, like seriously! =S


I'm busy watching series this recently, currently following 'Californication'. Im like the f*cked up guy in that series. The main difference is that I dont go and sleep around with all the girls that I encounter. I am not a bad boy after all, I am just a naughty guy. lol. But seriously, I miss her loads.


Watched 'G.I.Joe: The Rise of Cobra' with the guys at Empire Cinema recently. It wasnt that fun, but the Joes did not make me bored to death. I love popcorns! lol.
Looking forward to Final Destination 5, hopefully I will not have to watch it myself.

I cant say Im enjoying my life now but life still has to go on anyway. SIGHHH!

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My favorite place to visit when I get to Mall, Gadong::

Yeah, Arcade!!
Am I too old for that already?
haha.
I scored that 345 btw =)

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I guess I have to pay the price for doing something very wrong when I was in a relationship. I deserve a long single life I guess! Forever a lonerrrrrrrrrrrr!

Yeah, like I have to go hiking alone. . .

a freaking sad loner

This is the point where friends around you play the important part. They are always reachable when you need them. You share your problems with them, they try their best to help you, they "lecture" you (at times), and then they eventually make you smile!
I'm grateful that I have my own circle of good friends to help me whenever I need them.







In this case, Chua walked in...

HAHA. Well, a bit gay I know.

We went to tasek together the other day. We tried the new hiking route, seriously it can kill those who have not been exercising for quite some time! =P but it's always nice to burn off some extra fats.

(Credits: My sister, the photographer)

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I went to Pusat Ehsan Charity Bazaar just now in the afternoon. I always love fun fairs and events like that. I did not try the ghost house and didnt dare to touch the freaking snake because I was scared. I did win some prizes though. Spent $5 bucks and bought few mins. of happiness, and it's gone afterwards.

We did not realise that we had "a monster" behind us until we finished shooting...

By monster I mean the real monster...

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2009 Nissan GT-R
A.K.A Godzilla.

I was like "wow! F*ck! It's a GTR!"
The girls were like, "okay.. just another small car."



Oh well . . .

Escape to Miri @ 25 - 26th July '09

It was a last minute plan. C booked the hotel room few days in advanced so it would be a waste if we did not go. Credits goes to R for providing us the transport and not complaining so much for being the driver. We started our journey around 4plus in the afternoon, and managed to touch miri ground before 6.30pm.

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Miri Marriott Hotel

Our first and only meal on that night: Seafood at Tanjung Seafood Centre.

石斑鱼

we are all guai kia. We dont drink :)
Cheers anyway!

We off to Bintang Plaza after that. Too bad I didnt have any RMs on the first day, all the money changers were closed. Only if me and H were still together, then I'll be able to get some RMs from her. Oh! She loves big sales too.

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sweet, right? :)

I wish I still have H beside me all the time.

I got so emo after seeing them taking cute pictures.

really emo!

I know R has been a good friend.
the problem is,

you must be sincere in front of the camera lehh!
Try harder next time! =p


WHAT'S UP WITH US??

Scary shit!! Eventho` it's like 2 storeys only. I have acrophobia - fear of heights!

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I seriously not used to being single =S

FUNNY? LOL.

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We all thought the small U-turn was extremely CUTE!

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We chose karaoke over clubbing because we are guai kias :) It costs RM60+ for the first hr, and an addition of RM30+ for every hour after that. We sang for 2 hrs, that explains why I got sick the day after. 终于说出口 is a freaking sad song. DAMNN!

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complimentary fruits

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R and the girls woke up early the next day, leaving me sleeping in the room all alone. How could they went to explore the hotel without bringing me? Sniff sniff!!

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But since we are all funny people, this is what happen next...

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We checked out from the hotel around 11am. We headed to Bintang Plaza again. Yes, we did not go to Boulevard or any other shopping malls. Bintang Plaza is simply the best!! Well, not really. Just that the girls got stuck shopping at there for so long that we did not have time to visit others. I ended up buying a pair of sneakers for myself for RM99. Wanted to get the Nike ones but it's too expensive, and I dont really need the sneakers actually. Just thought that I really need to buy something for the sake of.. going miri =P

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We had red pepper chicken for breakfast! Kinda oily though =p

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Final stop before leaving Miri!!

bought bacardi breezer for the junjung stayover!

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Bye Miri =)

Our final stop before R sent we all back home, Netzone @ Gadong. We thought it's nice that we tried the seria kolomee. But somehow we did not have time to stop by Seria. At least we get to have the kolomee before our short trip ended.

Yes, I was sick when I took this picture.
Still not fully recovered yet now.

Sigh.

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My little updates:
1. New semester has started. It's thursday today and I have just got my first lecture in the morning! I have 4 core modules this semester, not taking japanese anymore. I must be serious in studies already!

2. Yes, I am still single. Give more, expect less. Yeah~ I wish I did that. I'm seriously not used to my current life without having H around. I seriously miss her loads =(

My life: study + work + gym.
Gonna start going to gym next week most probably. Life still has to go on anyway. Just hoping that I will be married to her once again in the future.
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Oh. One of my fav. site, shh-proshop.blogspot.com was hacked recently. I guess someone hates SHH so much. lol. Funny shit.

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Too bad H didnt come =(

Someone from the crew suggested that we should have a bbq outing before our long holidays ends. And, we had our 1st bbq together today at Berakas Beach! ( So semangat of me to blog about it now! =P ) We planned to reach there before 7AM and we are all brothers of our words, we got there early. We all didnt sleep much the night before, probably we were all too excited? Or we just didnt want to get screw up? Anyway, it was a fun day for everyone I suppose. Only if she also can make it. Sigh.

Mitsubishi Airtrek & Honda Accord
two early birds

Food came late. Nothing much we could do except for scratching each other's asses. Yes, I am just kidding.

Hong Ge being cute

sweet couple (=

Nick behsong WeeMing because he overslept

Nick behsong Alex because he laughed non-stop
Nick behsong me because I emo

Nick brought his driver there because he is talented, in bbq! Throughout the day, he did the most work so he really deserve an applause. Guys, clap for him!! *CLAP*CLAP* Oh! Adison and Fiona did help to panggang for the sake of our stomachs as well, thanks guys! As for me and the rest of the guys, we just enjoyed eating and laughing and talking all the way. I did enjoy tho`, but the feelings of being emo kept coming back. I asked H yesterday if she wanted to join us, but she "... cant and dont want... " =(

Nick's driver used coconut husks as starter, looks pro!

I always love bbq! Food was superb! Thanks to Alex's mum who marinated the chicken wings with special mixed sauces! Prawns, hotdogs, crabmeat sticks, fishballs were great too. We also had bbq-ed sweet potatoes, each? Too bad I cannot bring her to join in the fun. It's just... very hard.

We started playing football after having our so-called breakfast. We even had dodge ball after that, it's been sooooo damn long since we had that game. Been ages!
I love jumping into the water, altho` I never know how to swim. Oh! The seawater was so damn salty yesterday.

fiona, adison & a new friend

han, qing?, me, weeming, alvin

adison, fiona, jessica, a new friend

I remember I did smile leh!! Did I really look emo and sad throughout the day?

I like the part when I was buried alive.
I dont like the part when Nick and Han assaulted me. I'm a heart-broken guy, shouldnt I be treated with more love and care? Sigh. I wish I am alright.

& I'm lil' sun burnt now...

Btw, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO VIVIAN JIE & SHIN WHO SHARES THE SAME BIRTH DATE (2nd August). It's always nice that you guys get to smile during your birthday. I had my chance, and it's gone now =(






Girl,
I miss those times when you smiled at me for no special reason
I miss those times when you asked me to text you when I get back home
I miss those times when you smacked me hard and still looked innocent
I miss those times when you called me 'dear'
I miss those times when you loved me everyday like there's no tomorrow

And now we are apart..
I miss you, I really do =(
Are we really going to get back together? I dont dare to think, just hope that things will be alright between you&i.


Sigh.